18 years and counting but the echoes of that pivotal moment still resonate as if it were yesterday: the day my parents separated. With the sudden absence of our mother, our family was bound to face a very challenging journey but amidst the chaos emerged a hero of parenting whose love, sacrifice and resilience became the guiding light throughout our darkest days.
Growing up in a household headed by a single father was not something I fully grasped its significance until I became an adult. My parents had divorced when I was just 6 years old, leaving my dad to navigate the complexities of parenthood on his own.
Despite the societal norms that often painted single fathers as anomalies, my dad stood tall, determined to provide for my sibling and I with a life filled with love and opportunities.
Mothers are often hailed to be the primary caregivers and the role of fathers can sometimes be diminished or overlooked. My dad disregarded these stereotypes embodying both maternal tenderness and paternal strength. He cooked meals with the finesse of a chef, washed me and my sibling, attended to all the household chores on his own and dispersed wisdom with the clarity of a sage.
Reflecting on my upbringing, I realize how my dad worked so hard, from making sure that our school fees is fully paid in time to helping us with our assignments. Our dad’s love was an unwavering beacon throughout our rearing, always guiding and protecting us with unwavering dedication. As we grew up, our dad was our rock, shielding us from life’s storms and sharing wisdom in his cherished stories. His presence and heartfelt tales molded our childhood instilling in us values that continue to guide us to date. Dad’s protective embrace and captivating stories created a sanctuary of love and warmth as we cruised through the years together.
My story is not unique. Across the world, there are countless fathers who like mine have dedicated their lives to nurturing and shaping the next generation. From stay at home dads who defy traditional gender roles to working fathers who balance career ambitions with family responsibilities, each of them is a testament to the strengthen of human spirit and the power of unconditional love.
Despite these contributions, fathers are often relegated to the background. Their efforts are downplayed and taken for granted. It is time to change this narrative. It is time to acknowledge and celebrate the invaluable role that fathers play in our lives.
Imagine a world where fathers are showered with the same praise and adoration as mothers. A world where Father’s Day is not just another holiday but a heartfelt celebration of the men who have shaped us into the people we are today. A world where the sacrifices and triumphs of fathers are recognized and honored, not just on special occasions but every day.
As I sit here penning these words, I am filled with gratitude for the men who taught us the true meaning of love and sacrifice. To my dad, Michael Muli, I love you.
To fathers everywhere, this is my tribute to all of you. You may not always receive the flowers you deserve but your impact in our lives is immeasurable. Thank you for being one of the many unsung heroes.
BY FAITH LOKO MULI, a Bachelor of Arts degree Student in Chuka University
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