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A little force won't hurt

STORY By MUSYOKA NGUI

There is reason correctional facilities exist. Some weird behaviors don't know the decency of civility. A little force won't hurt. Or will it?
Johari Series, now in its fourth turn details the depiction of the struggles adopted families go through.

Though hard to decipher without bringing in academic and western tilts, it still shows how foster families strive to be accepted. Yet they give so much of their time, money and unrequited affection.

This creative art is by Tina Clara who had earlier credited her entertainment industry's amazing works to Sammy Kioko. Sammy needs no introduction.

HOW Kinywa lost his fortune to a woman in Chuka

STORY By ALHAJI SAKWA

Daniel Kinywa* (not his real name) had always dreamed of building a better life. A hardworking man from Chuka, he had spent years saving up, hoping to turn his modest plot in Ndagani into something more meaningful. When an offer came knocking, he didn’t hesitate. He sold the land for a handsome sum, KSh. 3.5 million, and the money was safely deposited into his account. 
From grace to grass, the story of Kinywa is now a cautionary tale to go slow on entertainment spots in Chuka least you're fleeced of your heard earned savings.|FILE

What he didn’t know was that his fortune—and his life—was about to take a devastating turn.

It all started one fateful evening at a popular entertainment joint in Chuka town. With his bank account fattened by the recent sale, Kinywa decided to treat himself. Dressed in his best shirt, he strolled into the club, eager to unwind. The air was thick with music and laughter, the scent of expensive whiskey mingling with the aroma of grilled nyama choma.

Then, he saw her.

She was a vision—draped in a figure-hugging red dress, her smile warm, her eyes playful. She introduced herself as Lisa. Kinywa, caught between excitement and intoxication, felt his heart race. She was unlike any woman he had met before—elegant, charming, and with a laugh that sent shivers down his spine. She listened intently to his stories, her hand gently resting on his arm. That night, Kinywa felt like a king.

Lisa was no ordinary woman. She was an expert in the game, a seasoned schemer who had seen men like Kinywa before—freshly loaded and easily swayed. She made him feel special, showering him with attention and promises of love. Kinywa, who had lived a relatively simple life, was mesmerized.

It didn’t take long before Lisa’s influence took hold. Kinywa began withdrawing money in small amounts, funding extravagant nights at the club, expensive dinners, and shopping sprees.

Lisa convinced him that a man of his stature deserved the finer things in life. She whispered sweet nothings, called him her "king," and he believed her every word.

Within weeks, the withdrawals became more frequent. Lisa introduced him to her "friends," a flashy group that reinforced her narrative. They drank the finest whiskey, took weekend trips, and lived as if money would never run out. Kinywa , lost in the thrill of his newfound lifestyle, ignored the dwindling balance in his bank account.

One evening, as he sat at his usual spot in the club waiting for Lisa, reality came crashing down. He swiped his card to buy drinks for the group, but the transaction was declined. Confused, he checked his phone—his account was empty. Not a single shilling left. Panic set in. How could this have happened?

Lisa, sensing the shift, made a quiet exit. Kinywa tried calling her, but her number was suddenly unavailable. He rushed to her usual spots, asked around, but it was as if she had vanished into thin air. The woman who had once promised him love and loyalty had disappeared, taking his fortune with her.

Devastated and broke, Kinywa sat outside the club, staring at the night sky. He had lost everything—not just his money, but his dignity, his dreams, and his trust. The reality of his foolishness hit him hard. A man who once had a plot to his name was now left with nothing but regret.

Kinywa's story has since become a cautionary tale in Chuka. Friends whisper about his downfall, young men shake their heads in disbelief, and elders sigh, knowing too well how greed and deception can ruin even the strongest of men.

Today, Kinywa is trying to rebuild his life, working odd jobs and staying away from entertainment joints. The pain of betrayal still lingers, but he has learned a bitter lesson—some women don’t just steal hearts; they steal fortunes too.

*Name has been changed to protect the victim's identity.

The Feature Story Writer is a Second Year Student at Chuka University pursuing a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Journalism and Mass Communication

SECRET lovers: Why the married cheat

STORY By ANDREW GWARO

On a bright Saturday afternoon, Christine, a 36-year-old mother of three, walks into a quiet café on the outskirts of Nairobi. She checks her phone, smiles, and moments later, a sharply dressed man in his early forties walks in. Their eyes meet, a knowing look passes between them, and they settle in a dimly lit corner, talking in hushed tones.
Before the temptation to cheat overwhelms you, ask and remember why you first met your faithful partner. |MWINGI TIMES

To the world, Christine is a devoted wife. To her husband, she is the perfect homemaker. But to the man she just met—her secret lover—she is a different version of herself: free, wild, and unfiltered.

Christine’s story is not unique. Across Kenya, and indeed the world, infidelity has become an open secret in many marriages. Men and women—some happily married, others trapped in toxic unions—are seeking love, passion, or even just validation outside their matrimonial homes. But why? What is fueling these affairs, and what does it say about modern marriage?

Many affairs begin where marriage ends—emotionally. Couples who once burned with passion now live like roommates, their conversations limited to school fees, house repairs, and dinner plans. The excitement of dating, stolen kisses, and heart-racing surprises gets buried under daily responsibilities.

“I love my husband, but I feel like we are just business partners managing a home,” Christine admits. “My affair is not about love—it’s about feeling alive again.”

Emotional Neglect and Loneliness

For many, cheating isn’t just about physical attraction; it’s about being seen and heard. In some marriages, one partner feels neglected, unheard, or taken for granted.

Michael, a 42-year-old banker, has been married for 15 years. His wife is a great mother and a responsible woman, but he feels emotionally abandoned.

“She’s always tired, always busy with the kids. When I try to talk to her about my day, she’s scrolling through her phone. I started confiding in a female colleague, and before I knew it, we had crossed the line,” he confesses.

Revenge and Retaliation

Hell hath no fury like a spouse scorned. Some partners cheat as a way of getting back at their significant others. Whether it’s after discovering infidelity, enduring years of emotional abuse, or feeling unappreciated, revenge affairs are becoming more common.

“When I found out my husband was cheating, I was devastated,” says Beatrice, 39. “I confronted him, but he denied it. I was so angry and hurt that I started my own affair. It wasn’t about love—I just wanted him to feel what I felt.”

The Thrill of the Forbidden

For some, the act of cheating is less about dissatisfaction in their marriage and more about the adrenaline rush that comes with secrecy.

“There’s something intoxicating about sneaking around,” says Kevin, 35, who has been in a long-term affair. “It’s like being in high school again—sneaking texts, secret rendezvous, the fear of getting caught. The risk makes it more exciting.”

Social Media and the Temptation at Your Fingertips

Technology has made infidelity easier than ever. A simple "Hey" in a DM can reignite an old flame or spark a new connection. WhatsApp, Facebook, and Instagram have become modern-day matchmakers for people seeking attention outside their marriages.

“There are women who message me out of nowhere,” says Dan, 38. “Some are married, some are single, but all of them want something they’re missing in their lives.”

Lack of Intimacy and Sexual Compatibility

When the bedroom goes cold, many people start looking elsewhere for warmth. Sexual dissatisfaction is one of the leading reasons for extramarital affairs. Some partners complain that their spouses lost interest in intimacy, while others say their desires no longer align.

“I used to beg my wife for intimacy,” says Brian, 41. “At some point, I just gave up. When another woman showed interest, I didn’t resist.”

The Price of Betrayal

Despite the excitement, secrecy, and pleasure affairs bring, they often come with devastating consequences. Marriages crumble, children suffer, and once-trusted partners become bitter enemies.

Some, however, choose to forgive and rebuild.

“My husband cheated, but I chose to stay,” says Janet, 45. “We went for counseling, and though it’s not easy, we are trying. I don’t want to throw away 20 years of marriage over a mistake.”

Final Thoughts: Are Affairs the New Normal?

In a world where temptation lurks at every corner, the question remains—can modern marriages survive? While some argue that affairs are a symptom of deeper issues, others believe true love and commitment can withstand any storm.

Perhaps, the key lies in rekindling the spark, communicating openly, and remembering why two people fell in love in the first place. Because in the end, no affair—no matter how thrilling—can replace the security of a loyal partner who chooses you every single day.

What do you think? Can a marriage survive infidelity, or is cheating an unforgivable betrayal?

The Feature Story Writer is a Second Year Student at Chuka University pursuing a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Journalism and Mass Communication

The Power of Music: A Sound That Transforms Lives

STORY By SHELMAH JEPKAZI 

Music is  a universal  language that connects people  beyond  borders, cultures and generations. It is a force that touches the human soul in ways that spoken words often cannot.
Music is a language understood universally beyond human limitations.

From the sound of ancient  drums echoing through forests to the modern  beats and urban rhythms, music has always been a vital part of human civilization. Its influence can be found in every culture  and traditions  across the world, giving life to ceremonies, rituals and celebrations.

Music is not just a form of entertainment. It is a way of expressing feelings, telling  stories and conveying deep emotions. From birth to death, music accompanies us through every  significant  milestone in life,marking both joyous and sorrowful moments. It has the power to cross language barriers and reach the innermost parts of our hearts, making it a truly global phenomenon. 

Music speaks a language everyone understands. It is a source of hope in times of despair  and a companion in moments of  joy.The beauty of  music lies in its ability  to be interpreted differently  by every  listener, making each song a personal experience to the listener. Music simply finds its way into the heart of every human being spreading  light where there is darkness. 

One of the most profound powers of music lies in its unique ability to stir and evoke a wide range of human emotions. Music can make us laugh, cry, smile, dance or even meditate. A soft ,gentle melody can soothe a restless heart and a calm an anxious mind while a fast, upbeat rhythm  can feel us with energy  and excitement.

There are songs that bring tears to our eyes because they remind remind us of our loved ones or painful memories, and there are songs that make us feel alive and free.

When words fail, music speaks. People  listen to music to celebrate, to mourn, to heal and to find strength. A song can tell a story that touches the listener's  heart in ways no book ever  could and a melody can capture a moment forever.

Music also has a great healing power, both physically and emotionally. Many studies have shown that listening to certain types of music can help reduce  stress, anxiety and depression. Music therapy  is now an  established  form of treatment  in hospitals used to help patients recover from  illnesses, surgeries and emotional  trauma.

Music has the ability to stimulate the brain.For people  struggling with depression, music can provide a comforting presence and help them  feel connected to  the  world. It is a sound medicine  that reaches beyond what any pill can provide, mending broken hearts and lifting heavy spirits. 

Education is another field  where music plays an essential role. Learning music from an early  age  can help children  develop  important  cognitive, social and emotional skills. Studies have found  that students  involved in music often perform  better in math, languages and critical thinking. Music helps sharpen the brain's ability to process sound, rhythm and patterns, which are also essential  skills in learning. 

Music boosts confidence  as students  perform  in front of audience  and receive applause  for their efforts.

Music is also a strong social force that brings people  together   in  unity and shared purpose.Throughout history, music has played a central role in social gatherings .National  anthems are sung with pride to show loyalty  to one's country. Songs of freedom  and justice  have been sung  by people fighting  for their rights and freedom. Music breaks down barriers of language, race and nationality, reminding  us that we are all human beings. When people  sing together there is no division. Music is a peace maker that builds bridges between  hearts and communities.

One of the most incredible  powers of music is its ability to cross cultural  boundaries  and bring people from different  backgrounds together. Even if you don't  understand  the lyrics of a song ,you can still enjoy its rhythm, melody and emotion.Through music we are able to learn about  different  cultures, traditions, and ways of life.African drums, Western  pianos and guitars all tell stories of their people and histories. Music connects the world and allows people to experience  and appreciate cultures far from their own.It promotes understanding and respect for  diversity. Music festivals  that feature international  artists allow audiences  to enjoy and celebrate  the music of different  countries, creating  unity in diversity. 

Spiritually, music has always been an essential  part of expressing  faith. Across all religions and spiritual practices, music holds a sacred place. Whether through chants, gospel  songs or traditional spiritual songs, music creates an atmosphere  of reference  and worship. 
In churches ,mosques,and temples, music help believers lift their souls to God. Music also allows individual to express gratitude  to  God,repentance and even longing for a deeper relationship with  Him.Music is a bridge between  the human and the divine, making the unseen  felt and unheard  heard.

Music also serves as a strong motivator and energizer. People  listen  to music to get  motivated for workouts, to study for exams or to prepare  for other important  tasks.A lively powerful song can boost morale ,inspire courage and keep people  focused. Soldiers march to the beat of drums; athletes  train to powerful  songs that build their energy  and  determination. Music focus on helping individuals push past limits and fears. In work places, music can increase productivity  and improve mood. Music is a constant  companion that  encourages  people   to move forward no matter what challenges they  face. 

In conclusion, music is a powerful  force that touches every  part of human life. It is not just about sound, it is about connection, healing, education, unity, faith, motivation  and  expression. Music has the power to heal the hearts, unite nations inspire  creativity  and bring  people  together.  
 
CHALLENGES  IN MUSIC 
-Lack of access to quality music education  in many communities. 
-High cost of musical instruments  and training for inspiring  musicians 
-Limited platforms for young and upcoming musicians  to showcase their talents 
-Copyright  and piracy issues that affect music  creators
-Cultural  barriers  that sometimes   prevent  the appreciation  of diverse  music genres. 

RECOMMENDED  COURSES  FOR MUSIC ENTHUSIASTS 
-Basic Music Theory and Notation  to understand  the foundation  of music composition 
-Voice training and vocal techniques for those interested  in singing professionally 
-Songwriting and  composition to develope skills in creating original  music and lyrics.

The Author of this Feature Story is a Bachelor of Arts [Communication Studies] Student at Chuka University

How documentaries drive social change

STORY By MOULPHIN OBIBO 

In film making, impact may involve bringing people together around important issues. It could also lead to people changing their minds or behaviors and might change lives or policies. 
Film making is a powerful medium to influence social change using empathy.

Impact is achieved by a film owner having power to make people aware of and care about an issue. It requires thinking strategically about how to channel that emotion into meaningful and measurable change.

Although it is big field for which there are numerous funding opportunities, impact producing is rarely taught at universities.
Universities and college courses focus on social issue but hardly prioritize social impact distribution. Access fees for training is highly competitive requiring a film in production. 

Film is a powerful tool that can be used to influence audience behavior and beliefs. The skills are transferrable to other story forms which empower individuals to work in different contexts both in career progression and future job prospects.
Documentaries raise awareness as they effectively highlight overlooked or misunderstood social issues through personal stories thereby educating viewers and raising awareness about various social issues.

For decades, movies have impacted audiences through their diverse delivery of critical messages.  Ranging from thrillers to musicals, the versatility of the film industry sparks interest in its viewers and harkens awareness to often overlooked issues.  Specifically, documentaries highlight subjects that do not always receive the commercial spotlight.  From inside views into the lives of celebrities to firsthand perspectives into geopolitical conflicts, documentaries can evince change as they uncover injustices and inspire viewers to act.  Yet, the caveat with documentaries is that the lens is often filtered through the perspective of filmmakers. 

Audiences need to remember that this art form can raise awareness about crucial issues but should not be a viewer’s only source of information on a topic. Documentaries change perspectives as they challenge biases by presenting alternative perspectives and humanizing marginalized communities thus changing public attitudes and promoting empathy and understanding. Watching a movie can change the way someone lives their life.

Documentary storytelling is a multidimensional change agent, a digital media artifact that is rooted in real communities, real lives, and real stories. Because a documentary is rooted in the human social world, watching it is a cognitively, psychologically, emotionally, socially, and politically complicated act. Thus, it is a potent medium for stimulating discourse, reflection, and behavioral change. It is a relational form of interreligious dialogue and delves into practical application as it contemplates best practices for how filmmakers might harness that power, reviewing literature on the possible social, cognitive impact of documentary. This interdisciplinary theory of change posits documentary film as a lever for increased interreligious competence because of its unique ability to disarm with visual storytelling and engaging characters, leading to a potentially reflexive experience of humanization and perceptual shift.

Documentaries influence public opinion and pressure policymakers to address social issues and implement necessary reforms by presenting expert opinions and personal stories. A documentary is a unique tool for advocacy as it combines visual story telling with authentic narratives to captivate audience. They evoke emotions that could hinge and encourage viewers to empathize with the cause. They provide in-depth insights into critical issues in an engaging format.

Documentaries often inspire viewers to support through volunteering and advocacy as real life stories and testimonials build trust and authenticity as it leads to credulity.

Documentaries are powerful tools for advocacy and policy change by influencing public opinion and pressuring policy makers to address social issues through the presentation of expert opinions an personal stories, ultimately leading to necessary reforms. They inspire action as it enables viewers to act by signing petitions, volunteering, or supporting causes, to make a difference in their communities. Documentaries have the power to engage minds and hearts on an empathetic, human level. 

Unlike most news and academic information, documentaries connect real lives and places to issues and ideas that might otherwise seem abstract. Paired with resources that help audiences reflect and reframe the issues, documentaries can also inspire real change.

It is clear that there is hunger for more structured impact learning opportunities globally and for local context specific case studies from around the world.

The Feature Story Writer is a Second Year Journalism  Degree Student, Chuka University

JOHARI

Have you watched the first episode of Johari ? What did you like most about it?
Check it out on YouTube by following the link below: JOHARI

KITHIO KITU SHOW

A Valentine's Special

How to deal with your Ex according to Betty Young

By MT ENTERTAINMENT 

Do you love your ex? Come to think of it, do you have their number? Do you remember them? If the answer to all these questions is yes, it's time you have a listen to Betty Young's new song, Exe Ndamenawa (do not hate your ex).
Betty Young, alias Muoma wa Sombe has a big following on YouTube where much of her music is posted for fans to interact with. 
The Muoma wa Sombe as she's known by her adoring fans is making big in contemporary urban music. The young artiste has also done other big hits such as Mami na Tata (Mum and Dad).

Ex hit seeks to change dominant narrative of bile which bedevil relationships. Ukambani is not spared in this rocky ride that eventually condemns promising relationships to be a mirage. Give us examples of some of recent breakups that have shocked Ukambani celebs recently.

TIME AND SEASONS CHANGE

"For everything there is a season and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted." Ecclesiastes 3:1. ''So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.'' Psalms 90:12. The seasons change and you change, but the Lord abides evermore the same, and the streams of His love are as deep, as broad, and as full as ever.
Seasons change. So do cities. People come into your life and people go but it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart. And if you're very lucky, a plane ride away. The moment in between what you once were and who you are now becoming, is where the dance of life really takes place. “Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.” 

A Course in Miracles

Gratitude for the turning of the seasons. May we attune our hearts to their enduring message of renewal. Rather than waiting for life to simply happen, I'm choosing to run toward it with open arms, no matter what it holds. To everything, there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.  "Nature gives to every time and season unique beauty; from morning to night, as from the cradle to the grave, it’s just a succession of changes so soft and comfortable that we hardly notice the progress." Charles Dickens. 

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future. Life’s winter may feel dark and cold but it’s a chance to draw within, rest, and look forward to the newness in the seasons ahead. Every new season of your life will be an opportunity for you to learn and grow. Don’t celebrate the good without celebrating the bad because they both work together to prepare you for the next season of your life.

A write up thoughtfully scripted by Kelvin from Kelma Foundation in Kenya ✍️.

ATTRACTING AUDIENCE ON FACEBOOK

Whether you have a Facebook account, page or profile, you must have thought about your friends and followers. That is, your audience. They inform your audience interactions. Some decisions you make are informed by who you have in mind to watch, view or read your work.
A Facebook profile.

In this article, we will look at what is likely to be among the trendiest topics you handle.

Exclusive 
People want content that they have not seen elsewhere. Content that is real and not regurgitation of past attempts from self and others to woo readers.

Lobby 
There are many causes that attract following once you highlight them on your topics. They include security, new products in the market and politics.

Comedy
People are depressed and mentally ill. They need something to ease tension and stress. Calm their nerves by making them smile again. They have not done that in a while.

Meme
Memes capturing trendy topics are likely to be reposted and followed. However, reduce or do away with posting those that are discriminatory in nature since they can be flagged by community for going against community rules and regulations. They include sex, racism and violence.

Think about media types to use. Whenever possible, make the interactions brief and with captivating experiences. This can be achieved by having a photo, video or link that summarize what you want to achieve.

There is no shortcut in achieving a compelling online presence. Some badges on offer are: Explorer, Director, Creative Streak, Remix and Wordsmith.

You must have the energy to achieve all levels, streaks and targets. There are weekly reports of your progress.  That means you be ahead of the trends and create better content.

By MUSYOKA NGUI

Not every prayer was answered as I wanted

High-flying Rwandan gospel artist Israel Mbonyi's new hit Kaa Nami (Stay With Me) has close to one million views on YouTube, a week after he launched it on his official channel.
Israel Mbonyi, Rwandan gospel artist.

The worship lyrics are that God's blessings stay with him in his journey and that he will not give up.

Living with the reality that not all prayers will be answered as he wants, his last plea is that God remembers him by grace.

A day after we posted the new hit requesting for your reviews, this is what we got. "Very deep.
All the lyrics are deep and melodies are catchy 👏🏽
Pure gospel too.", said Ms Grace Mawia, a Kenyan gospel artist.

We also sampled some views on YouTube:
@risenstrength:Plz kaa nami eeh Mungu wangu.
@LynnNgugi:Sio kila ombi litajibiwa nitakavyo.

By MUSYOKA NGUI

Star with unique blend of gospel melodies

Sharon Mtoto Wa Mama, a rising Gospel music sensation from Embu, has captivated audiences with her vibrant performances and soulful music. Known for her unique blend of gospel melodies and traditional rhythms, she has become a beloved figure in social gatherings across the region. Her performances, whether at church events or county celebrations, bring an electric energy that draws in the crowds, leaving everyone inspired and entertained.
Sharon Mtoto Wa Mama during an earlier photo shoot.

Sharon’s songs, like the heartfelt “Nirakugooca Ngai,” showcase her powerful vocals and her deep spiritual connection. She often sings in Kimbeere, bridging modern gospel with local traditions, making her music resonate deeply with her audience. Her performances during key celebrations, such as the Madaraka Day events in Embu, have solidified her as a local favorite, winning the hearts of many with her passion for music and her ability to uplift spirits.
Sharon Mtoto Wa Mama moments after she was awarded the best female artist of the year Embu County in 2023. The competition was dubbed Embu Music Annual Awards.

Sharon's social media presence, especially on TikTok, has further amplified her reach. With thousands of followers, she regularly shares snippets of her performances, personal moments, and messages of hope, continuing to grow her fan base and inspire many with her messages of faith. 

From humble beginnings, Sharon Mtoto Wa Mama is steadily becoming a force to reckon with in Kenya’s gospel scene.

By BRIAN MUSYOKA

Two baby mamas and a Tina, Obama's dilemmas mount

Having money and means opens doors, windows and skies. At least, for Obama, the stage name for Peter Musyoka who is caught between pleasing many and deferring his own wishes.
Obama is clearing seeking a third term as a dating president|TINA CLARA 

Sixth episode of Will You Marry Me by Tina Clara explores a common theme of managing baby mamas in a world of insatiable gluttony.

It is still a shame that men are evolving to be entirely "eye people" and seeing is believing.

Two Mercies refuse to accept the reality that Obama is looking for a third term as "president". Not with them but in another "country" called Tina.

Depressed and stressed, Tina fell short of leaving the posh location on foot 👣. Because that was too much to happen to her in a day. 

By MUSYOKA NGUI

WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE

Having successfully held a Muvango concert in Washington DC, USA last month, Kenyan international gospel music artist Evangelist Danny Kioko is back with a brand new song called "It's Possible".  It has been played by popular Kamba television stations soon it was posted in his YouTube channel.
A screen grab of newly released "It's Possible" song by Evangelist Danny Kioko

The song is accompanied by reggae beats with a blend of Swahili and English as well as translations for his diverse audiences.

We sampled some adoring fans and this is what they said:
@christinetinah6311:Keep winning my Sunday School teacher 😊
@nancymunyithya6659:Yes, it's very possible. With Him, nothing is impossible 
@samuelmakau7687:To God all things are possible.

By MUSYOKA NGUI

WHY MAIMA'S POLYGAMY DREAM FAILED

Stringent conditions are conspiring to render Tina husbandless. She has to accept the fate of being a second wife who must wake up at 3am to prepare children of the family she is joining.
Alphonse Kioko alias Maima appears in the fifth episode of "Will You Marry Me" with his wife Esther Kioko(right) and the show host Tina Clara. |TINA TALES

Maima's wife Esther Kioko described her as a home wrecker. It is tough being a career woman and succeeding in marriage since you already have an attitude against sharing. Tina can't share her own immense wealth with the Maimas.

Then lastly, being lazy reduced her chances of success. She doesn't want to work hard to start and keep her own family. 

The most degrading task she was given before she gave up chasing Maima was to be the family house girl.  Accustomed to waking up at 10am, Tina Clara, a film school graduate from KU, got a video dramatized to her. The prank backfired.This is the fifth episode of Will You Marry Me for Tina Tales.

By MUSYOKA NGUI

Anything for Fari

IN YES I DO, EPISODE 6, one thing led to another and here we are with a collapsed marriage that was arranged. Doing something that will live with you for eternity for other people except yourself is a precursor for crumbling of many relationships.
Tamara told Fari (L) to move on since Sammy has never been there for her. But going by her indecisiveness, she is headed back to the Barazas as an estranged second wife. This matrimonial agreement has many flaws that don't work for Fari and it entrenches commodification of women. But they choose it. Don't they?|SK ENTERTAINMENT

Mzee Baraza thinks that he could still buy love and he didn't first check his bank balance. Bringing Fari to the same house as a second wife proved chaotic and would never have worked. He stays with first wife already. And she too fled.

But this marriage failed because it lacked foundation. Baraza helped Mzee Michael to leave jail, we're told. Then as a way of showing appreciation, it's like he gave away his daughter to the sponsor of his freedom. "I am grateful he got me out of jail but he cannot have his way all the time", Mike laments.

But Fari has other plans. Sammy, the immediate ex-boyfriend is candid to Fari. "Hii kitu we jikaze for the sake of your parents. It hurts. It should not be like that but what will we do?" , he asks.

While Fari's parents are complicit in selling their daughter to a hurtful man, it looks like she will close many chapters in looking for love. Tamara advises her not to get back to Sammy since he was never there for her when she needed him the most.

Away from much drama about relationships and their imminent failure, we get to have a glimpse of what friends are for. Like Tom tipping his friends about fashion. He tells Sammy that his chest is supposed to be for those who should see it. Otherwise, utashtua wasichana. Or a truthful one-liner he gets from Shikwekwe thus: Wasichana watakumaliza.

STORY By MUSYOKA NGUI

"We can't be friends again

It's now emerging that Mzee Baraza was under pressure to follow traditional African norms on marriage. Episode 5 of YES I DO lifts the veil on a forgotten topic dogging today's relationships: childlessness.
Few days after she was rushed through a white wedding, a grumbling Fari is back to her former flame, Sammy. But Sammy is spoilt for choice already. This world!|SK ENTERTAINMENT

Much as it is still for the stage, it is a depiction of real life. Society unfairly blames wives for not bearing children yet it could be a man's problem, or both.

In other scenes, Shikwekwe comes off as wiser and older. With a balding forehead and relaxed dressing as if there is no hurry in Africa, he quips this to Sammy, " Save a brother before he saves you first".

Like all good thing's, what's saved for last is indeed the prime piece. Sammy refuses to be a simp of being relegated to "just friends" corner after Fari chose Mzee Baraza over him. He rightly argues that a lot has happened and that, "we can't be friends again". There are many things that can't be reversed. 

STORY By MUSYOKA NGUI

With all his money, Mzee Baraza fails to buy love

Men are slowly learning women have lives outside them. Themed "In the Name of Marriage", the forth episode of YES I DO telenovela is everything except romance.
Mama Karimi(R) conveniently forgets that Fari (C) has her own life to live.|SK ENTERTAINMENT

It shows how polygamy tramples on the rights of women. Men don't obtain consent from first wives when they want to marry a second or a third wife. Besides, it remains a secret to the one being married as number two.

The collusion web is wide and deep as Fari's mother "blessed" the new union. It is a pathetic situation full of tension and suspicion. 

Elsewhere, ladies are getting their mouths back. They can katia men they are crushing on. Tamara is trying to bag Mr Sammy Kioko. The bad thing with being a celebrity is that you will never know it's prank or it's real. Because the pull factor may be money not love.

One major outdated aspect about today's parents is that they underestimate the intelligence of their children. Mama Karimi bullies Ms Fari to go back to Mzee Baraza, a rich mbaba whose only claim to his second attempt at marriage is a fat wallet.

As Andrew posits, if you're not happy, get out of that union. Even if you signed a contract. Tear it up.

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There is no fun in this, Fari laments as honeymoon turns chaotic

Based on a true story, Yes I do is not your average TV show. It puts forward a compelling case for the place of young people in deciding their life partners on the one hand and the role of money in relationships on the other.
Mzee Baraza introduces Fari (left) to his other wife Susana. |SK ENTERTAINMENT

Now in its third episode, Fari is already battling love and its drought.  Having been subjected to a forced marriage courtesy of her mother's wishes, she has never been happy. This included her rushed wedding and a depressing honeymoon that she admits thus: There is no fun in it.

Tamara is a friend she confides in. She said that she was married a second wife in order to please her parents. It was a forced marriage.

What turned to be a major highlight for Mzee Baraza and Fari's arranged marriage is Sammy's attendance. Sammy miscalculated. That's why he is rightly reprimanded by Faris mother Mama Karimi to have used common sense and skipped an invitation to attend the wedding given it is in public domain that the pair are former lovers. 

Time doesn't heal here. It makes things worse. See you next Friday to see if Fari will cope with the Susana's stares.

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Shop good to buy happiness

While it's still early to tell, it seems clear that money can't buy happiness. However, that may depend on where you shop.
Poverty made Sammy lose Fari to Baraza. Such is life. |SK ENTERTAINMENT 

Mr Baraza, with all his ostentation, glitz and glamour, failed to impress Ms Fari. Looks like the arranged marriage was designed to fail. 

It's Baraza who dismissed other men's cars as toys while promising heaven to Fari. He is himself languishing in matrimonial hell, a day after the pair was attached with so much optics but little depth of love.

YES I DO is another of Sammy Kioko's productions. It is largely same script different cast. But what is quite telling is a father's love for his daughter. Mzee Mike noted very early that Fari doesn't love Mr Baraza. She was not happy. Losing Fari to Baraza is too harsh a fact to tolerate. "Fari is the only thing I have", he remembers.

As for Sammy, the haunting memories flashing of better days gone is what keeps his gaze fixed and eyeballs dilate. Having lost Fari, he resolves to go low key and search himself. "I know things will be fine", says he. Another man down in the name of love.

STORY By MUSYOKA NGUI
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